All happend 3 month ago. 12.3.2013 in Denizli, Turkey.
When I have decided that I will move to Turkey to be with my husband due to his visa refusal in UK, I was a bit in agony but the same time I was happy. HAPPY! I dont know when I felt like this before. I had only one goal ahead me, to be with the man who loves me and who I love so much.
I had to make a big step. Give up everythin I had. Eveyrthing i build from my own power, from scratch. I have to admit it wasn`t easy. 9 year working hard and achive to be a property manager was a big thing for me. I went to UK in 2004 from Slovakia and gave up everything behind me. My good job, my friends and I left my loved family too. Had the same feeling by going to Turkey just like back then...but I did it. I made it. Just like I made it in Turkey too.
I worked as au pair in a lovely family with a basic knowledge of English. By now I achieved to speak and write and communicate fluently and to get a profession as property manager. I was proud to myself just like my family. Despite of this, I still wasn`t too happy, until I met my wonderful husband and got married.
A year of trying to get his visa was flustrating. I was 6 weeks pregnant when I had miscarriage due to stress I went throuhg while we tried to sort out his visa. After resfusing, I made my choice. I`m leaving UK. Leaving London. Leaving my job, my friends and 9 years hard work.
Many people said, I m stupid to move to a country where I don`t know anyone except my husband. Where I will not be able to work, will not all the goodies that I have here and in fact I do not speak the languages.
Nothing could stopped me. I wanted to be with a man who love so much, with a man who with his pure and tender love can protect me. So, I packed my cases and in May 2012 I have left UK.
Arrived to Turkey one day before our birthday! And what a reliefe! I felt so happy, so free and tired. Tired all of the stress I had in London, the hectic life, the competition, the rat race. I picked up my laguagges with a big smile on my face and could not wait to go and see my husband. My heart was beating faster and faster, every minute felt like hour.....so I stepped out and there he was! My wonderful, handsome husband. Felt soo good to be in his arms, to feel his heart beat, to feel protected by holding me. He kissed me and said: Welcome in Turkey Askim!
Of course as it is a Turkish family it will not be just only my husband who will come to the aiport, but had my mother in law and my father in law waiting for me there too. We cried, we laughed, we huged each other. My in laws kept saying to me: " Welcome kizim (my daughter), welcome kizim!" - felt just like being with my sweet and wonderful parents.
From the aiport we had to drive another 3hrs to home. Home. To my second home! Because from now, this will be my place to be, to live. For how long we do not know, but we said, we will try our luck over here and will see how God will guide us.....
...to be continou...
When I have decided that I will move to Turkey to be with my husband due to his visa refusal in UK, I was a bit in agony but the same time I was happy. HAPPY! I dont know when I felt like this before. I had only one goal ahead me, to be with the man who loves me and who I love so much.
I had to make a big step. Give up everythin I had. Eveyrthing i build from my own power, from scratch. I have to admit it wasn`t easy. 9 year working hard and achive to be a property manager was a big thing for me. I went to UK in 2004 from Slovakia and gave up everything behind me. My good job, my friends and I left my loved family too. Had the same feeling by going to Turkey just like back then...but I did it. I made it. Just like I made it in Turkey too. I worked as au pair in a lovely family with a basic knowledge of English. By now I achieved to speak and write and communicate fluently and to get a profession as property manager. I was proud to myself just like my family. Despite of this, I still wasn`t too happy, until I met my wonderful husband and got married.
A year of trying to get his visa was flustrating. I was 6 weeks pregnant when I had miscarriage due to stress I went throuhg while we tried to sort out his visa. After resfusing, I made my choice. I`m leaving UK. Leaving London. Leaving my job, my friends and 9 years hard work.
Many people said, I m stupid to move to a country where I don`t know anyone except my husband. Where I will not be able to work, will not all the goodies that I have here and in fact I do not speak the languages.
Nothing could stopped me. I wanted to be with a man who love so much, with a man who with his pure and tender love can protect me. So, I packed my cases and in May 2012 I have left UK.
Arrived to Turkey one day before our birthday! And what a reliefe! I felt so happy, so free and tired. Tired all of the stress I had in London, the hectic life, the competition, the rat race. I picked up my laguagges with a big smile on my face and could not wait to go and see my husband. My heart was beating faster and faster, every minute felt like hour.....so I stepped out and there he was! My wonderful, handsome husband. Felt soo good to be in his arms, to feel his heart beat, to feel protected by holding me. He kissed me and said: Welcome in Turkey Askim!
Of course as it is a Turkish family it will not be just only my husband who will come to the aiport, but had my mother in law and my father in law waiting for me there too. We cried, we laughed, we huged each other. My in laws kept saying to me: " Welcome kizim (my daughter), welcome kizim!" - felt just like being with my sweet and wonderful parents.
From the aiport we had to drive another 3hrs to home. Home. To my second home! Because from now, this will be my place to be, to live. For how long we do not know, but we said, we will try our luck over here and will see how God will guide us.....
...to be continou...
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