Monday, 22 March 2021

LOVE & HATE....



LOVE  & HATE are such strong #words, they aslo cause so much pain....said my my Grandmother one day. Ooh, she was right... so right.

When you are in love, you are in pain. I know, i know.. you are asking " why? how come? you are in love , you supposed to be happy?!"...yes, you are right...but think about it....when you are in LOVE, you love so uncondiciotnally,...so much that is hurt....hurts, beacuse you know that one day this can be over. and when is over...it will hurt, because all what you ever #loved, become you enamy and starting it to HATE.

You HATE the day, you set you eye on him/her, you hate the day you first time kissed, you hate the date first time you said "I LOVE YOU", you hate the moment first time you fell in love, you hate eveyrthing you ever had....

But lets go back to LOVE....what is is exactly? What does mean when someone tell you I LOVE YOU, what does mean when you say to someone I LOVE YOU, what does mean fall in love, love you forever, love you to the moon and back....

Love isnt supposed to be a feeling of strong or constant affection for a person. : attraction that includes sexual desire : the strong affection felt by people who have a romantic relationship. : a person you love in a romantic way. -  NO , it is lot more.....

#Love means to give yourself to someone, like you never had  before.....yes, you sell your soul, your heart, your trust, you beleives your hope...and you give it for #free, unconditionaly to the person. You feel protected, you feel safe, you feel free, you feel loved...until the person betrayes you, lies to you , distroys you,

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Changes or to let go



When life comes to the point, where you don’t know how to proceed further, is time for #change!

Yeah, but how to start? Where to start? What to change?  Many of us are facing some difficulties in our life and when we feel stuck, when we feel trapped, the only way to get out of it, is to change our life. But what is it, that we need to change? The way we live? Our #job? Our #friends? Our partner? Or simple just our way of thinking….but here is a thing…what if we do not need to change our life to get out from the trap where we live….we just simple need to let go……To let go our fear, our negative thinking, our worry…..or our #Love….

Sometimes is good to sit down in a quiet place and just look inside our soul and heart. Not to analyze but to think about what we really want! Not others, not our loved once, but ME! Say it out loud: ME!

We are not here to please others, but to please ourselves…so we can say, I AM HAPPY! Truly #happy… and yes this require 2 tings! TO make CHANGES and TO LET GO….toxic, negative, people …..from those who can’t see the good things in you, who doesn’t appreciates you and who won’t stand by you no matter what!

MAKE CHANGES and LET GO…..do it now, before is too late! Be BOLD! BE YOU!